🎄Dedication

For my three adult children, Sienna, Kalib, and Christopher. I enjoy(ed) bringing you joy every year as children, and I do hope that you will carry on the Christmas tradition in years to come. I love you all so very much. 💋
Love, Mom

Saturday, February 14, 2026

The Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon


Book Title:
  The Frozen River
Author: Ariel Lawhon
Genre: Historic Fiction
Main Character: Martha Ballard
Story Setting: Maine 1789
Story Summary:  When the Kennebec River freezes, entombing a man in the ice, Martha Ballard is summoned to examine the body and determine cause of death. As a midwife and healer, she is privy to much of what goes on behind closed doors in Hallowell. Her diary is a record of every birth and death, crime and debacle that unfolds in the close-knit community. Months earlier, Martha documented the details of an alleged rape committed by two of the town's most respected gentlemen—one of whom has now been found dead in the ice. But when a local physician undermines her conclusion, declaring the death to be an accident, Martha is forced to investigate the shocking murder on her own. Over the course of one winter, as the trial nears, and whispers and prejudices mount, Martha doggedly pursues the truth. Her diary soon lands at the center of the scandal, implicating those she loves, and compelling Martha to decide where her own loyalties lie. Clever, layered, and subversive, Ariel Lawhon's newest offering introduces an unsung heroine who refused to accept anything less than justice at a time when women were considered best seen and not heard. The Frozen River is a thrilling, tense, and tender story about a remarkable woman who left an unparalleled legacy yet remains nearly forgotten to this day. Inspired by the life of Martha Ballard, a renowned 18th-century midwife who defied the legal system and wrote herself into history.

Review:  I absolutely loved this book! It’s inspired by a real midwife but tells a fictional story filled with murder, rape, abuse, love, romance, mystery, and babies being born. I found it to be very well written, with thoroughly researched details. While it’s not a Christmas story, it’s set during a long winter and makes a brief mention of Christmas.

Tuesday, January 6, 2026

Christmas Thrifting

"It is not last season, it is archival. It is not secondhand, it is sustainable. It is not outfit repeating, it is style consistency." —Janna Cachola

I dropped my husband off at work and instead of going straight home, I stopped by the Goodwill by his job.  I was hoping to find a Christmas Village item, and there were some, but they looked ugly to me, so I just kept looking around.  I aaw this baker Santa Claus, and I decided to research it.  It seems to be a vintage Kurt Adler fabric maché piece, that sells on eBay for $100!  I got it for $5.

I kept looking around and found the Rudolph booties with reindeer pompons on the backs, still with tag, for $1.99.

The book I picked up is called, "The Frozen Pond" by Ariel Lawhon.  It has no creases in the spine and the cover was taught, so I assume it has never been read by whomever donated it.  I also got that for 99¢.

Saturday, January 3, 2026

Belated Christmas

“Christmas, children, is not a date. It is a state of mind. ” ― Mary Ellen Chase

My niece Anna, her fiance DeAndre, and my great niece Lailah came up to Orange County for a cheerleading event.  You know Uncle Trevor couldn't leave out our nieces (or Dre) for the holidays.  When I was at work, he went Christmas shopping. 

When I got home, I had to wrap presents.  I have an amazing husband.  He's so very thoughtful.  It's like Christmas all year round, sometimes.

We went to Lailah's cheer performance at Edison High School in Huntington Beach (that's not her school).  And then we met up with them for some Hawaiian BBQ at Maui Barbecue in Westminster.  Anna was the one who suggested it, because we had Maui BBQ the last time she came up and she loves it.






Anna and Uncle Trevor (and Dre)

Lailah and Uncle Trevor

Anna and Aunt Jeri

Me and Dre

Trevor and Dre

Me and Anna

Me and Lailah

Lailah and Aunt Jeri

Lailah LOVED her present

Anna and Dre got a gift too



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