“I stood for almost an hour in a line of shuffling, bitter-eyed late mailers (Christmas is such a carefree, low - pressure time - that's one of the things I love about it),...”
― Stephen King
Trevor, received a tiny, decorated bag at work from his Filipino co-workers. The bag is kind of feminine, so he passed it on to me.
The contents were two boxes of whitening soap, by a company called
Magical! I was like, "What are you trying to tell me?" He said, "Nothing. I just saw two little soaps with a chick on it and thought I would give it to you."
What a sweetie pie for thinking of me.
What baffles me about this soap is the precedence of self-hate that darker completed Asians feel the need to lighten their skin. Having grown up in beach cities of southern California, I loved a tan or "healthy glow" from having some sun light. Lightening my skin has never been a thought that crossed my mind.
I love my freckles and beauty marks. It makes me unique. As the song goes..."A face without freckles is like a sky without stars." Needless to say, that was an interesting gift.
The girls I live with had an explosive Christmas. Their living room was so full of gift wrap when they were done, it looked like Christmas threw up all over. I enjoyed watching the kids open their gifts. It's the first Christmas without my children. It warmed my heart a little to hear the squeals of grateful children on Christmas morning. They call Trevor "Uncle Trevor" even though he's not biologically their uncle or even married into their family. It's called "hanai" family, meaning an unofficial adoptive family member.
He got them a Mickey Mouse popcorn maker to share. I love to see genuinely grateful children.
I didn't think I'd get a gift for Christmas, because to some, I was bad in 2016. I just had a break-up from my kids father, and we were together for 21 years. It will come to fruition, the blessing it was that we separated because in the end, good things will come for both of us. We just don't know it, yet.
I live in Makaha Valley. It's a small town on the far west side of O'ahu, Hawaii. The neighbor girl across the street received a goat for Christmas. It was the cutest thing I'd ever seen, yet.
But, I did receive gifts. I received a handmade quilt by Trevor's mom, Jodie. Valerie gave us a personalized glass Christmas ornament. Trevor bought me a my first Mele Kalikimaka ornament as is tradition in his family (giving an ornament every year). He also gave me a rose, after driving an hour to come see me. It certainly made a bittersweet Christmas a bit better.
